That’s Not a Mommy Moment
One thing we love about abusive parents is that they somehow find a way to defend their toxicity. They use many things such as “I want the best for you,” “it’s because I love you,” and “it’s tough love.” But our favorite one is making up cute names for their uncontrollable rages.

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They display unacceptable behavior and justify it. Woman, you didn’t have a “mommy moment.” You had an irresponsible lapse in judgment and got violent by smashing your child’s belongings. You should do more than buy them a new one. Attending anger management classes is a good place to start.