Always Ask Dad and Mom for Permission
You know when you give your parents a logical response and they still try to fault you? Well, something similar has happened here. There is a lot wrong here besides the nasty way this mom is speaking to her daughter. First, she uses the f-word around her own child.

Source: Reddit
Then she ignores the fact that her daughter asked permission before going about her daily business. Another problem is that this child is being held responsible for her parents’ lack of communication. The best thing would’ve been to ask the dad where the daughter went before messaging her.